Another reason Liberals make no sense

There has been some hullabaloo going on in France over prostitution.

As usual, the typical liberal/feminist is up in arms over what they term a moral outrage. I don’t mind people being against prostitution. It is their choice.

In this case, what I find to be particularly hypocritical is that the rallying call of pro-abortionist liberals and feminists(redundant since they’re all one and the same), “HER BODY, HER CHOICE” is nowhere to be heard. It is HER BODY, HER CHOICE when it comes to a matter that could impact the lives of many, but it isn’t HER BODY, HER CHOICE who she chooses to have sex with and at what price?

The congruency is lacking here, but then again, what else can you expect from this group?

Porn is inherently and essentially beta

Have you ever sat down and truly thought about what is going on when you watch hardcore porn? I am guessing not. To most of us, porn is a harmless way of releasing some pent-up sexual energy, getting a quick dopamine fix and going on with our day.

But what is really going on when we watch porn?

First of all, I am going to go on a limb here and put out there that I believe porn is bad, plain and simple. It is psychologically addictive, kills your dopamine receptors, numbing you to more basic pleasures of life, gives you ED, lowers your T-levels, kills your confidence, prevents you from harnessing your sexual energy and converting it into something productive and more. You can look up the negative effects of porn if you like. Yourbrainonporn.com is a great resource to anyone trying to truly understand the nefarious effects of porn on you.

However, this is not what this post is about. This post is about something much more primal. Something evolutionary.

I was watching a documentary on monkeys the other day when I had an epiphany. The beta monkeys of the group stood watching while the alpha monkey was fucking one of the many females in his harem. They stood watching and masturbating while their better was fucking the object of their desire right in front of their eyes, and NOTHING they could do about it.

Then I had a lightbulb moment. Isn’t that the exact same thing that happens when you beat it to porn? You are watching some guy fuck an object of your desire, while you sit there helplessly and stroking away to his thrusts in the object of your desire. Primitively, I believe that is a signal to your brain hinting at your position in society. It is the tell of the beta.

And that is why stroking it to porn is primitively beta. I believe it is hardwired in the brain to recognize beta behavior and adapt accordingly. Both for the one exhibiting the behavior and for those seeing the behavior being exhibited.

I am sure you have all seen a video where some guy is banging a girl and some other guy is watching and masturbating. What did you feel for that guy? Pity? Contempt? That guy is you when you are watching porn.

I am currently on no fap day 14(personal record is 35). The benefits are incredible. Like with any addiction, people who come from heavy porn use will at first believe there is nothing wrong with them. It is only once they are off the drug that its nefarious effects start to be seen, as well as the hold it has on them.

Steer away from the use of porn, you will not regret it.

The Sublime

I used to be that guy who never understood why people went crazy over art pieces. I would think that they were mildly retarded at best, or deserved to be in an asylum at worst.I was still trapped in the reductionist mindset that seems to be running rampant in Western society. This mindset can be condensed into a question which has rapidly become the rallying call of every one trapped in the idea that logic and rationality are the peak of the human condition. “What’s your proof?”.

Proof and evidence are supposed to represent the bastions of critical thinking. If you cannot prove something factually or logically at least, then what you’re saying is automatically assumed false. The science worshipping sheep will disregard anything that does not fit within their paradigm of “logic”. It is truly sad because one of the main things we have to realize as humans is that there are things that transcend our understanding. The irony is that we understand that and acknowledge it every day, yet still fail to accept it. There is nothing logical about emotions. There is nothing you can analyze critically about them. They just are. Feelings are not rational. Yet they are there all the same.

The first experience that stirred me from my slumber as a science worshipping sheep(and inherently close minded since I could not accept anything that was not explained logically by science) was a reading of Les Misérables. The original French version. The book hit me like a jackhammer. I remember when I finished reading the book, I was sobbing like a kid and my dad actually came in my room scared something serious had happened to me(I was 17 at the time). I couldn’t do much of anything the next day due to how affected I was from my reading. I had glimpsed the sublime from mere words on paper which had touched me so profoundly. That je-ne-sais-quoi which transcends logic and reasoning and appeals to a higher ability in us.

As humans, we tend to view our ability to reason and think critically as our greatest asset. I will not deny that. However, we must not also limit ourselves to just that. I believe human beings are also one of the few(if any at that) capable of acknowledging, appreciating and even fashioning the sublime and the transcendent. It is from this that the arts were created.

It is not hard for me to believe there are things above comprehending these days. I have seen the visceral reactions people can have to a painting or sculpture. A painting that to most is merely paint mashed together. I have been serenaded to the heights of bliss by a classical music concert which held me in a state of  utter inner peace and satisfaction for close to a week.

It is this ability to appreciate beauty and perfection(or things that come very close to it) that truly puts us apart from the rest of animals, and in the future, from robots. It is also every man’s true dream deep down to create something that approaches this ideal of perfection and beauty. It does not matter what that thing is concretely. His own creativity and uniqueness will shape what his sublime work will be if only he is driven and commited to his dream. Unfortunately, most people today have stopped dreaming. There is nothing as sad as a man losing his will to create that which will sublimate everything else he has done on this earth and bring mankind one step closer to transcending itself.

This can also be applied to our understanding and belief in God. A lot of atheists will give you a list of arguments and reasons for why he doesn’t exist. If your faith is weak and have never experienced the sublime, you may waver and be swayed into believing that there is nothing else except logic and critical thinking. Once you have had an encounter with the sublime however, you will operate on a whole other plane. You will understand the limitations of logic and reasoning and will realize that there is no point in arguing with someone who has not had an experience with something that is far and above human comprehension.

And then you will smile inside and be grateful that you at least got to experience such a thing at least once in your life.

Screening Women – Acid Test # 1

A fellow reader at The Spearhead made an astute observation

Back when I was still dating, one of my acid tests on a first date was to casually ask the woman about her father. I generally got one of two reactions. If the woman smiled warmly, began speaking of him in positive terms, and generally looked and acted as though she was having happy memories of him, then I knew she was a keeper.

On the other hand there were the women who at the mere mention of the word “father” got a cold, distant, or even shocked look on their faces as if to say, “Why are you asking me about HIM?” They would refuse to talk about their father, and in some cases claimed that they didn’t even know where he was and did not care. I knew those women were damaged goods. They simply were not capable of having healthy relations with men, and no matter how well I treated them, they would always view me with suspicion and disdain.

This is one of those lightbulb moments. I am not shitting you. As I reflect back to the girls I’ve known, there is a definite trend. The ones who didn’t have fathers present or who had weird relationships with  their dads have all been no  good. On the other hand, the girls who’ve been in a stable home with a proper father figure were just a joy to be around.

The girl I still remember most to this day, a cute, bubbly latina psych student. Her name was Stephanie, and she showed me Ceviche. My game was way off back then and she gave me so many chances which I fucked up. She was a sweetie, and definitely one of those girls one considers wifing if one has plans to get married. She was profoundly feminine, had that twinkle of innocence in her eyes and was a genuinely warm person. Last I heard, she was raising money for some water initiative back in her home country of Peru. Her family was very closely knit, I ate dinner with them once. Her dad was a boss. I lost her by using gimmicky PUA shit, when she was clearly interested. If there is a girl I regret screwing up with, it’s her.

The other good girl was a casual fuckbuddy, though she developed feelings. Stable family, she was always stress-free and you could really unwind around her. Came over wearing nothing but a jacket once, and with a bottle of rosé. Truly feminine and a pleasure to be around with

Another one, which didn’t work out was a girl I met in a bar with her friend. She’d typically come out with 10$ and sip on her drinks, or sometimes come out with nothing and get suckers to buy her a drink. She friendzoned me, but she was smart, never got too wasted and obtained good grades. I met her dad twice. Chided me for  not liking his daughter’s food and we fooled around. Really cool guy, plays guitar and seems like a big part of his daughter’s life.

Italian Chick met in a Chapters, Christina. Strong family, alpha dad, they all made wine and grew tomatos together in the summer. She is sweet and a bit quirky, which is endearing. I remember one time she was sick and told me not to kiss her cause I might catch it, and I did. Her reaction was just too cute for words.

This is the end of the good girls. Note that none of the girls mentionned above got black out drunk or used drugs regularly. I think that is significant.

My ex. Ukrainian girl living in Canada. Father re-married another woman and seems to not care about her. She had been riding the cock carousel, dropped out of university and has been basically doing nothing with her life. She is 27 or 28, with no future plans, and is always talking about BS spiritualism, planet energy, and similar sounding BS. Is a vegetarian. Drinks like a sailor, does hard drugs and smokes weed all the time and is abusive and pigheaded. Major jealousy issues and clingy as fuck.

Chick from class I dated for a bit. Attracted to drug dealers, had two drug dealer boyfriends. Not sure if father is alive  or not, never seen him once at home. Major attention whore.

Stripper I picked up at the bus stop. Predictably, father issues. Mom remarried, and her new father in law is always nagging her and on her back about doing something about her life. I suspect he tried to bang her,  though she never mentionned it. Would explain why she hates going home for holidays. Had over 20k of credit debt because of clothes and shoes, had to live off soup kitchens just to make it. Strips and bartends. Best sex ever. Has a boyfriend, I suspect he’s a drug dealer. Known to consume hard drugs like heroin, cocaine and other stuff.

I could continue on and on but you get the point. Although it is anecdotal in this post, there is evidence that children from stable homogeneous families(mother-father) are better adjusted than others from studies.

While in the US Census same-sex households have to be guessed at based on the gender and number of self-reported heads-of-household, young adults in the Canadian census were asked, “Are you the child of a male or female same-sex married or common law couple?” While study author and economist Douglas Allen noted that very many children in Canada who live with a gay or lesbian parent are actually living with a single mother—a finding consonant with that detected in the 2012 New Family Structures Study—he was able to isolate and analyze hundreds of children living with a gay or lesbian couple (either married or in a “common law” relationship akin to cohabitation).

So the study is able to compare—side by side—the young-adult children of same-sex couples and opposite-sex couples, as well as children growing up in single-parent homes and other types of households. Three key findings stood out to Allen:

children of married opposite-sex families have a high graduation rate compared to the others; children of lesbian families have a very low graduation rate compared to the others; and the other four types [common law, gay, single mother, single father] are similar to each other and lie in between the married/lesbian extremes.

Employing regression models and series of control variables, Allen concludes that the substandard performance cannot be attributed to lower school attendance or the more modest education of gay or lesbian parents. Indeed, same-sex parents were characterized by higher levels of education, and their children were more likely to be enrolled in school than even those of married, opposite-sex couples. And yet their children are notably more likely to lag in finishing their own schooling.

The same is true of the young-adult children of common law parents, as well as single mothers and single fathers, highlighting how little—when you lean on large, high-quality samples—the data have actually changed over the past few decades. The intact, married mother-and-father household remains the gold standard for children’s progress through school. What is surprising in the Canadian data is the revelation that lesbian couples’ children fared worse, on average, than even those of single parents.

Source : http://www.thepublicdiscourse.com/2013/10/10996/

It is no surprise that the good girls were all doing great  in school. My peruvian lady was already working for a hospital after graduating with a 4.1 GPA.

In order to avoid all the drama, screen for paternal involvement. Avoid any dalliances with young fillies who exhibit aversion or disrespect towards their fathers. Better to have tranquillity of mind and spirit, and bulging balls, than to empty your manfluids in one of these cum guzzling whores who have never known  the affection and presence of a father. The drama that will ensue will not be worth the brief tryst(unless of course you pump and dump). You have been warned

father and daughter

Do Not Hate Women

As one ages, matures and observes female behaviour more acutely, it is increasingly easy to hate them for fulfilling their biological imperatives. As men, our sense of honor is baffled, lacerated and deeply wounded by female behaviour. There comes a junction after taking the red pill where one has to make a choice. He can become bitter and jaded at the disgusting, entitled and selfish behavior of women with good reason, or he can chalk it up to their biological imperatives and women being women.

The first choice is the easiest, especially in the west where women compete with men, claim to be equals, yet do not pull their weight equally and still expect the privilege that comes with being a woman. I can honestly say that I don’t blame the man who takes the first choice. Western women are just greedy and entitled. But let us not forget that it is the western man who has allowed the situation to get so out of hands. Still, I do not blame him. Frankly, I was thinking like this not too long ago, and I still get a visceral reaction when I observe women in social situations expecting the best of both worlds, and the worst of none.

The second choice leaves you with the real situation of things. Women act like that because they can get away with it. Period. In the West, they can get away with anything short of murder, so why the hell not? You can have your cake and eat it too, and the granddaddy state will make all your worries go away, funded by hardworking taxpayers. What do you expect them to do? Not use their get out of jail free cards? Not pursue the best of both worlds? No, you would too if you were in their position and didn’t have a strong moral foundation. The real person to blame here is you men who allowed the situation to get to where it is and continue allowing it to get worse. Do not hate the women, hate the beta who bucks. Do not hate the women, remove yourself from the game, or go to where the grass is greener.

It is too easy to get bitter at the western woman, and with good cause for it. Don’t let that bitterness snowball into a hatred of all womankind. The problem is with the culture, not the women. Visit different cultures and enjoy women who have the qualities you are looking for. The Western woman has been destroyed by the Left  and feminist to the point where there is really no point in taking a risk there. Just pack up and find your happiness elsewhere. Don’t become a jaded hater. That is no proper way to enjoy life

Link between Religion and Alphaness

A man who stands for nothing, will fall for anything

Malcolm X

Frankly, I do not care whether or not you believe in God. That’s your problem, not mine. With that out of the way, I am just going to say I’ve noticed that there are a lot more alphas among the religious than among the pagans. To be fair, this is to be expected. Without a moral compas to guide one, one will flipflop and just ride with the current. Hence the above quote.

Religions typically have strict rules to adhere to. They bring order and discipline, no matter what the religion is. Those are key elements of any prominent religion. As such, these people have actual moral compasses which we may or may not agree with, but they will not budge on their positions, because they truly believe they are right. They are confident that they are in the right. Unassailable confidence is the core of a true alpha male. Strong beliefs and positions on certain issues typically correlate with confidence.

Anecdotally, I have met many more alphas among those I would qualify as truly religious people as compared to those who are atheists or agnostics. The latter are just cringeworthy and display their undecisiveness to the world like some badge of honor.  Their token phrase goes like this: “I don’t know, but I am open to the possibility of something existing”. This is just too much for me. How can a grown man not know whether he believes something or not? Besides this mental weakness is the undecisiveness. Again, we refer to the quote at the beginning of the post. Confidence comes from truly believing.  If you truly believe God exists with unassailable confidence, good. If you truly believe with 100% confidence no God exists, good for you too.

Therefore, I’ve noticed the truly religious people being some of the most socially dominant and confident people.  They stride with a purpose and have no time to waste and no shit to tolerate. They are about God’s business, so make way. Interestingly, I have not quite seen the opposite. I find it ironic that a lot of these self proclaimed atheists hold agnostic beliefs and are usually very highly superstitious. It seems cognitively dissonnant but I digress. These are typically leftists too and are the ones responsible for driving western society to the ground and causing a resurgence of extreme right movements all across the west.

Again, the quote at the beginning of the text seems awfully fitting.

Two Types of Introverts

Typically, when people think about introverts, they picture some form of socially awkward person, who actively avoids company and would rather be alone. Not by choice but by necessity. The only people who want to hang out with them typically use them as emotional tampons or are just as pathetic.
Something like this

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These types of introverts usually just shun social contact because they end up getting embarassed or feel bad about their lack of social skills. Instead of going out and getting shamed repeatedly, they would rather stay at home and do something alone like play a video game or watch some tv show.

There is another type of introvert, almost unknown and visibly undetectable because they do not appear to be introverts. They do not shun social contact, are not socially awkward, can actually be quite socially savvy and the life of the party, yet these people enjoy their time alone more than their time with people. It sounds hard to understand, but that is a crux of a true introvert. Whereas the first type would love to be able to go out and enjoy themselves with some friends, the second one often declines to do so and rather spend time with their own mind and with themselves.

These are the types of people who never get bored. They always have something to do, they’re always thinking, always planning something in their minds. These are the people who enjoy a relaxing friday evening with a book and some jazz. These are the dreamers and the accomplishers

I find that as a man starts on the road to achieving his potential, he naturally becomes an introvert. Very few people today are on the road to achieving their potential, so spending time with those who’ve given up on their dreams is a surefire way to become like them. A man trying to achieve his potential knows that others do not want him to do so. For the sake of his goals, spending time in his own mind is in his best interests. Many dominant men are like this. You might not notice this because they are socially savvy, but these men tend to have their own world and do things in their own time.

Ironically, being able to spend time with oneself is something a lot of people lack today. They are always searching for the quick fix, whether it be breaking news, drinking with buddies, watching something or going to some party. They just cannot stay home alone with themselves. They wouldn’t know what to do. And that is an easy way to separate the achievers from the chaff. Some are working on themselves, planning for the future, developping skills, while others are out there searching for external validation.

Do not squander your potential on meaningless things. Turn inwards and focus on building you. At the end of the day, that is the only thing that is going to stay with you forever. Not the guys you met at the bar. Not the girl you met in the club. No, the only thing that will be truly yours till the day you die is you.