Why Nightclubs suck

Nightclubs are one of the most insidious places to meet women. Most of the girls are out not to find someone, but to get their egos caressed and stroked. They are there for the validation of getting hit on by a ton of desperate and horny guys and receiving free shit in the form of drinks and drugs.

The only people who get laid in a consistent manner at nightclubs are the people working there, officially or unofficially. The manager, the DJs, the bouncer, the promoter, the dealers, the bartenders, these are the guys with social status. These are the guys the women who are willing to fornicate are going to go for. Not you. Sorry, your game might be immaculate, but that is just not why they’re there.

The real reason nightclubs actually suck is because of the conflict of interests. Most guys assume that girls are there for the same reasons as them, i.e, to pair up and find a partner. That is the goal of a small subset of the girls going there. The rest are going to get their egos stroked and are “open to the possibility of meeting someone”, someone being a cross between 50 Cent, Bill Gates and Ryan Gosling.

Unless you have some sort of status at the clubs you attend, you are wasting your time. You might get lucky once or twice, but it is in no way consistent. We are talking about closing the deal here, not kissing/getting a number/grinding or whatever other bullshit measure of success you guys use. Most girls in clubs are time wasters and won’t put out unless your social proof is off the charts.

Even worse is places where cover for girls is cheaper or non existent.

Never, never, NEVER go to a nightclub and never pay a cover (ie, never go to a place where they want to charge men for access to women….because that access is a deception).

Stick to dive bars and pubs where women are out for the purpose of socializing with men and are looking to get fucked.

Passive vs Active Game

The ingestion of the red pill is difficult. It has been almost a year and I am still digesting it. Fortunately, I have come to terms with some of its harsh truths which I couldn’t reconcile myself with a while back, even though I considered myself “red pil”.

One of the biggest arguments between game denialists and the pro-game camp is about active game vs passive game. Active game being stuff like routines, openers, DHV, etc. Passive game being stuff like working out, making money, becoming more travelled and learned, being aesthetic, being tall etc.

The game denialists will swear that only passive game matters. They believe that you would have gotten the girl either way because of your innate natural advantages. The pro-gamers want to believe that only active game matters and that passive game is unnecessary.

Paradoxically, both are right. You can get notches with either style of game as long as you are not a complete fuckwit. I’ve been on both ends of the spectrum so this is coming from experience.

Yet, both are wrong as well. Game denialists want to believe game does not work. This is false. Game doesn’t ALWAYS work. This is a crucial distinction to make. Some girls just aren’t into you and no amount of spitting game is going to change that. That’s a fact. However, some girls are on the fence and your game is ultimately what helps them reach a decision. Creepy guy who hit on me, boring friendzone guy, stud I want to fuck my brains out, or classy guy I want to be in a relationship with. Your active game will ultimately decide in which category you end up when a girl is on the fence.

But for the girl to even be on the fence in the first place, your passive game is what is going to matter. The way a girl would react  to you when you’ve been hitting the weights, are well groomed and well dressed, have your own place and your own car as compared to your skinny fat self with poor grooming and terrible clothing, living with your parents and using public transit is night and day. Sure, some girls will be open to both, but the majority of the attractive(and constantly dwindling with the whales gaining ground) female population will react more favorably to the first version of you

Therefore, this is not an either/or thing. For maximum results, you need the best of both worlds. Solid, tight active game which can be acquired by perusing the Chateau archives, reading up material and approaching. Solid, tight passive game which can be acquired by working out, dressing better, grooming yourself, making money and becoming more worldly.

Some will say that they don’t want a shallow girl and want a girl who can like them for who they are. Sure that is your right. What you don’t realize is that by becoming the best you can be, the pool of girls who will like you for what you are will increase exponentially.

If you are still blaming girls for being superficial, you are still mired in the blue pill reality. The truth is that everyone is out to get the best for THEM. That is why you are attracted to buxom girls with hourglass figures and pretty faces. It is not superficial to obey your natural imperative. Therefore it is not superficial for women to seek hot, fit guys with money. It is a natural imperative.

The redpill is scary at first because it shatters all your preciously held illusions about reality. But when you embrace it fully and adapt your life to its reality, you will realize that every aspect of your life will improve tenfold.

Learn active game, work on your passive game for maximum happiness and success

Harnesing your sex drive

Western society has all but succeeded in shaming men for their natural sex drive.

With ideas like rape culture being spread around and blatantly false statistics on rape being proclaimed as the truth, you would think men are animals that fuck anything that moves.

In fact, you probably think that. This is what you have been socially conditioned to believe. You have been conditioned to believe that the male sex drive is destructive. It is animalistic, primitive, uncontrollable, violent, and worst of all, dangerous.

Well, forget about that bullshit. Your sex drive is ultimately at the core of most of the things you do. There is a reason why “herbs” and “hikkikomoris” and “NEETS” contribute nothing to society. They have no sex drive, and if they do, it is wasted on blow up dolls, hentai or porn.

Biologically, we are programmed to spread our genes. This is the driving behaviour behind much of our actions, consciously or subconsciously.

Tricking your sex drive to believe it is satisfied through the use of porn or masturbation will have the net effect of turning you into a lazier person than you could be. Instead of picking the easy way out, you should restrain yourself, let your sexual energy build and use it to fuel your endeavors, whether it is in the gym, in your interactions with women or with business partners.

A noticeable trait of harnessing your sex drive is that you become more aggressive. Here is another word that has been mutilated and turned into a demeaning term by the femiminzed society we live in. There is nothing wrong with aggressivity. It is the go getter attitude. You go for what you want and keep pushing for it, until you get it. Not settling for 2nd place is being aggressive. Not taking a no is aggressive. Being a winner is aggressive. Making the decisions that control your life is aggressive. Not being afraid of taking risks is aggressive.

I have been making all sorts of gains in my life, physically, mentally, materially and socially ever since I started harnessing my sex drive and making zero excuses for basically being and feeling like a man.

Harness your sex drive and stop wasting it. You will realize how much more you can accomplish and how much faster.